just because someone holds a position in a church does not mean they are a good fit to be your mentor. This can be for a variety of reasons. Some may not have the time you would require while others are just not able to relate to your life experiences. Remember the best mentor is the right mentor for you. Here are some examples of potential Spiritual mentors:
Empty Church is for digital natives that are trying to find out how to live the six days between Sundays when the church building are empty.